That's all to it. Otherwise, I am normal.
Being eccentric is not the same as being crazy.
So if being in love is the issue, I just tackle it at that level.
Well, I am an INFJ. I am always like this.
The trick is to fall out of love soon enough.
Then to go for self-love.
Time is a Universal Healer.
What matters is the love I have for my family and for myself.
The issue is, do I believe in that statement?
I need to nurture love so that I get love.
Let's look at the Dokkodo a[s] (and) decide.
* Sarah, my job is to simplify my life.
3. Do Not, Under Any Circumstances, Depend On A Partial Feeling.
Move with certainty. Don't allow Fear, Doubt, and Certainty (FUD) to cloud your judgment. Doubt and genius don't coexist.
5. Be Detached From Desire Your Whole Lifelong.
In my opinion, this is non-neediness. You achieve this by being content. The koan for that is to look up for inspiration but to look down for satisfaction. The Arabic term for contentment is qanaah.
7. Never Be Jealous.
Jealousy is a disease of the heart. It eats from within. When you are jealous, you operate from scarcity. There is never enough. The remedy is just a simple mindset change; think in abundance. There are plenty where it comes from when you think in abundance.
8. Never Let Yourself Be Saddened By A Separation.
This is true in the case of death and distance. In Malay, we have a saying, far from sight, close to heart. As long as you hold on to the secure attachment, death and distance are relative.
10. Do Not Let Yourself Be Guided By The Feeling Of Lust Or Love.
A lot of men fell for this trap. They let their gonad do the thinking instead of their brain. Chances are they are not able to think straight under the influence of testosterone or dopamine. Most crimes of passion can be avoided should they follow this advice including excessive spending on the opposite sex,
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